jetgirlflyer
AMDO
Just wondering if there are any other mil to mil couples out there who do not live with each other? And how are you coping?
My situation in a nutshell is this:
Got married Dec last year we had already been living apart for 3 months. He started IFS, API and is now in Primary. We have been living apart since last Sept and only see each other on three day weekends (if he is not studying) and if I take leave for a few days.
Is there anyone who has either been in, or know of anyone in this position? Fortunately we dont have children now, but we both have busy schedules with my workups and his studying, he is one of those study/stress freaks and we only maybe get to talk to each other once or twice a day for ten min or so. Its taking a toll on both of us.
Its not like one of the situations where the spouse is actually there with each other. I can see being in the next room and not being able to see or talk to each other, but at the end of the night at least you get to sleep with your spouse and be intimate with them. Being away for a month or two at a time and only getting to spend a couple of hrs at night before class the next day is really making things kinda hectic.
This situation will be like this probably for another year then I will be on deployment. I was just wondering if anyone had any words of wisdom?
Thanks in advance.
My situation in a nutshell is this:
Got married Dec last year we had already been living apart for 3 months. He started IFS, API and is now in Primary. We have been living apart since last Sept and only see each other on three day weekends (if he is not studying) and if I take leave for a few days.
Is there anyone who has either been in, or know of anyone in this position? Fortunately we dont have children now, but we both have busy schedules with my workups and his studying, he is one of those study/stress freaks and we only maybe get to talk to each other once or twice a day for ten min or so. Its taking a toll on both of us.
Its not like one of the situations where the spouse is actually there with each other. I can see being in the next room and not being able to see or talk to each other, but at the end of the night at least you get to sleep with your spouse and be intimate with them. Being away for a month or two at a time and only getting to spend a couple of hrs at night before class the next day is really making things kinda hectic.
This situation will be like this probably for another year then I will be on deployment. I was just wondering if anyone had any words of wisdom?
Thanks in advance.