As an observation 3+yrs removed from ACDU: you couldn't pay me enough to go back and that's based on QOL alone. What are the biggies:
-my current working hours are sane and sustainable. I can be counted on to make it in time to pick up my kids from day care and to get them to stuff on time.
-my wife can work. She know longer carries the stigma of "military spouse" that many employers find distasteful.
-I don't have to move. Peers who are still ACDU have moved 2-3 times since I last did. Having shit pile up in my basements opposed to getting purged every 1-3yrs is a nice problem to have
-my current pay is pretty good. Paying taxes on all my income and state taxes is a pain but is worth it.
-admin overhead has gone down. I'm a USN govie and have to do all the same GMT crap that the ACDU guys do, but somehow it's far less painful than in the Squadron.
-my job doesn't include hundreds of unrelated chicken shit tasks competing for my attention. I don't have to worry about PT, shined boots, sunglasses on my head, glares from Chiefs/SWOs, zipper height, log book, flight physical, instrument approaches, working hours, crew rest, can I have a beer, haircuts, the next move, the next deployment, the next ISIC inspection I have to take seriously, and so on.
-I don't have rules that seem only to exist to make it impossible for me to do my own job.
No amount of extra flight time or $$$ would make up for having to deal with that crap again