With all due respect, OC, the attitude you're putting forward is what caused a lot of problems with OC's at my unit. It made it very hard for any type of command structure amongst the unit's Midshipman/OC/MECEP ranks to be firmly established beyond a semester-long title. I don't know you, so I don't know what kind of guy you are, but I'm sorry to say the best thing for you to do is to suck it up and play the game.
The OC's that really WERE the leaders - the ones that helped us ignorant Midshipmen the most - were the ones who showed up early when told by their sophomore squad leader they had to come in at 0600 for something. They followed without question while still sharing their wisdom, and led out of humility. They were respected dearly for it, and were looked up to by all.
Those that came off with the whole "OC" thing hurt morale, hurt the effectiveness of military training, hurt their opportunity to endow wisdom and experience, and were seen in a very bad light by pretty much everyone (Mids, Unit Staff... everyone except some of the other OC's).
Look, every Midshipman there KNOWS you have the experience. Don't flaunt it. Don't look for special treatment (cause you're already getting it - look at your paycheck and then ask to see a Midn LES). I know it's a hard transition, but leading by example - showing these Mids how a good OFFICER should act, especially when put in situations that don't make sense or aren't what you want them to be - will pay off a lot more in the end.