Just a little note for those of you desiring to become married during the initial stages of training.
First of all, I have seen many marrages go down the tubes because of relationship difficulties during training. While your spouse is going through training, you will be alone and may not see your significant other a lot because he/she is studying/training. It's not easy on the spouse that is left behind while the military member is hard at work trying to earn the coveted warfare device.
Secondly, With that said, you are also marrying a MILITARY member that WILL deploy at sometime in his/her career. This is an extremely trying time for any family. Extended deployments (one of my squadron buddies has been gone for almost 10 months now). Make sure you understand that you will be separated from your spouse for some periods of time and this is not always easy.
I have been married for 17 years now and my wife has been very understanding about my military career. Is it hard? HELL YES! For both people, but it does take some sacrifices on both sides (I have lost count of how many B-Day's & Holidays I have missed).
As far as the original question....Make sure you are ready for the commitment of marrage. It's a give and take relationship and it will seem like the military member is sometimes taking more than giving, but he/she is also committed to the service (and the service always has priority [in the military's eyes], but they do try to take care of families).
Finally, It doesn't matter when you get married, just make sure you are getting married for the right reasons!
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Disclaimer: Do not take anything I said personally...this is just my viewpoint after being in the NAVY for 19 years.