I spent my 1/c cruise with VQ-3 up at Tinker. Let's see what I can't remember...
Okay, to start with, Oklahoma City was described to me as a married/engaged guy/gal's paradise, as the property values are rock bottom. Everyone out there owns a house with a nice yard, etc. etc. Additionally, you can gauge when you're going to be on deployment pretty well, which again bodes well for having a significant other. The flip side to all this is that you'll be dating someone at most for about 5 weeks before you've got to head out for a 20-30 day deployment, so sticking with one person is tough. (note: this is 2nd-hand knowledge, so take with a grain of salt.)
As for the actual squadron stuff, you'll first go to VQ-7, the FRS (RAG? whatever) where you'll fly modified 737s and learn how to trail the wires (yes, there are two) correctly. One of the side benefits of this is that you are type certified on the 737, so you get to have that feather in your cap if you decide you want to try to make the leap to the airlines.
The planes themselves are pretty new, with the latest being delivered in 98, as I recall. They're a 707 airframe with 4 turbofans - very easy handling in most circumstances. The tricky maneuvers that are performed are the in-flight refueling with AF tankers and trailing the wires. Other than that, you're on autopilot for a lot of the time if you're a pilot. NFOs are either mission commanders or back in the back with the crypto gear overseeing the ETs.
The community itself seemed to be somewhat akin to subs - a tightly-knit team that respected differences in rank and grade, but didn't let that get in the way of a well-developed sense of comraderie. Where you deploy to depends on which squadron you're in - VQ-3 goes mostly to the west coast, whereas VQ-4 goes more to the east coast, but either way, you'll be visiting a lot of Air Force bases, since they have the parts and infrastructure to service the 707 airframe. Ah, and lest you think you'll be going to all of three bases your entire time there, during my 10 day deployment we stopped at Edwards, Offutt, Travis and Luke (California desert, middle of Nebraska, Sacramento and Phoenix, respectively), so you'll get to see a lot. Sometimes the crew will deploy to Hawaii or Europe, but usually the CO/XO get those hops.
That's about that... let me know if you have any other questions.