Are there some females that try to use their looks/body to get signoffs, get out of tasks, gundeck? A few.
Are there some females who "aren't like other girls" and put on an overly masculine vibe to "compensate for being a girl in a man's world"? A few. Are there females who show up to be the best they can at their job, work hard, don't complain (as much as is normal), and still be respected for their work ethic and personality? Yes and it's the majority.
Guys (and girls) who say things like "you're either a bitch or a whore" are usually immature, tools, and/or tend to be one of the laziest gundeckers in the squadron. At some point in your career (it's almost a rite of passage for everyone), there will be some rumor about you sleeping with someone(s) else because people get bored with their own lives and love to speculate. Whether or not it's true, don't feed the trolls and know the reputation you've built for yourself will sustain you above it. Occasionally you'll get a side remark about "oh, you seem moody, you on your period?" or you'll be actively carrying something and have a guy insist on carrying it for you even though you're not having any issues. If you wonder if something said or how someone acted towards you was misogynistic/sexist, mentally replace yourself with a guy in the same situation and think if that person would react the same way. Most of the time, you'll see that it's not meant as a dig against our gender. If you're struggling with a checklist and get called out on it, it's not because you're a female, it's because you need to review your checklist more. I've seen a couple of females try to blame their own shortfalls or mistakes on sexism in the squadron when the truth is, they were subpar at their job and thus produced subpar results.
Still though, don't be afraid to ask for help if you actually need it. No-one is going to think any less of you if you're an overall solid individual. We all bring different strengths to the table and we all have areas we can improve on. Be accountable for your responsibilities, own up to your mistakes, focus on being the best in your field, and get shit done.
Just my two cents (ok, that was like a dime's worth) based on my observations and experiences as a female in the Navy for the past 5 years.