I know this post is late <looks at calender instead of watch>, but I wanted to add one thing.
I know you have started the process to apply, so I want to add a word of caution: If for some reason you are not accepted the first time around, DO NOT give up!! You may need to apply a couple times to make it to OCS.
Unfortunately, I can envision a scenario where you may be pro-rec no and your finacee says, "Well, I guess we tried and that is that." That would not be an acceptable answer for me, since it is my dream. Don't let him use a pro-rec no as some sort of divine answer, and never apply again. You may regret it down the road.
Oh, and if you need some ammo, just remember that although the Navy life can be rough, if you stick it out all 20 years, the Navy offers an outstanding retirement package compared to the civilian world.
Do the math on half a Commander or Captain's pay for the rest of your life, and you will find you are in much better shape than relying on a 401k and the whims of Human Resources or a scandelous CEO.
You also get base privilages, and other ammenities (such as the GI Bill). You will be young enough to get another career started, so when you both grow old, you won't have to rely on Social Security. Of course if you two don't think the Navy is worth all 20 years active, you could do the reserves for many to all of the same benefits at Officer level (Porsche payment?). The key is you will already be in the system.
Just like Journey sings, "Don't stop, believe'in' " :icon_smil