I just reread some of the posts. Major Frumby is on the ball. I'm not up on Marine policies, but as you could probably guess, I'm an aviation attrite, out of primary at Vance. I've had the luck to have the past ten months or so to seek a job, since the Navy tends to leave us in place until they redesignate us. I've had several friends go GenAv now, and that seems to be the current trend, at least from Vance.
I will say again: SpecOps and SpecWar will not pick you up. I was in pretty good physical shape, the EOD recruiter seemed impressed, and have a solid academic background in aviation training and college. In the end, there was not a bleeding chance. There was nothing that my CO could do, nor was there anything the EOD recruiter or his chain could do (I interviewed with the chain...) So, I'm swinging now.
Recently, I've seen two naval officers try to become Marines. Both were USNA grads, and had been to Leatherneck, so they seemed to think they had a decent shot. Not a chance. The Navy will get it's money out of you, and I'm sure the Marines are much the same.
Lessons Learned:
1. If you realize pilot training is not what you want to do, even if you lose buddies killed, attrited, or NPQed during the process, don't lose your focus. It may be something you don't initially like doing, but aviation is still a cool place.
2. If you're an attrite, plan on earning your place back into the naval officer corps. You've just p*ssed away a golden opportunity in some fashion, whether it be academic busts or DOR (exception: NPQ), and you better be prepared to show everybody that you're a capable officer as a GenAva bubba or a SWO before you expect to be redesignated to something cool (including even Intel, Av Mx, Subs).
Stick with it, fly safe
JT