I'm going to chalk this up to a major difference in communities. I see a whole lot of helo and P-3 folks disagreeing and all the tacair/VFA folk agreeing with the basic sentiments I have said (aside from being a clown and being a jerk in public). Well, with exception of R1. Maybe our world has changed since you were in, but you also left as an O-6 IIRC so any JO would be insane not to salute you. FWIW. I know talking to helo JO friends of mine, I have been shocked to hear that they called DH's by terms such as "boss" or "sir". That wouldn't in a million years happen in VFA. It isn't a sign of disrespect, just a complete difference in what is "normal".