In your view, how is the Navy's stance different today than, say, 30 years ago?So it sounds like big Navy is really saying not to consider marriage and family while you are AD.
In your view, how is the Navy's stance different today than, say, 30 years ago?So it sounds like big Navy is really saying not to consider marriage and family while you are AD.
...and there's nothing unique about Lemoore in the challenges that professional spouses face in finding good jobs."But we get an extra 10k per year to live there" just isn't enough. 50k? How much does your spouse make now? It has to be at least that much to make the money even part of the conversation.
That means your T/M/S community isn't having trouble getting people to take orders to those locations. It's an incentive pay.I guess you're shit out of luck if your T/M/S isn't homeported at one of those locations. 🤷♂️
...and there's nothing unique about Lemoore in the challenges that professional spouses face in finding good jobs.
Was on an LHD in the Persian Gulf during the OIF kick-off, when the ship calls emergency flight quarters. Later found out that a Marine sergeant went into labor, and delivered in that little medical facility onboard. The H-60 det transported the baby and mom to higher level med care in Kuwait.like my oldest was in Reno......and we now joke how he is an outlaw by birth)
I think the key factor is being in a small town/rural environment. Setting aside the professions that we normally think of as transportable, like teachers, nurses, etc., If you're a lawyer, or doctor, academic, engineer, scientist, businessperson in any of the traditional fleet concentration areas like JAX, Norfolk, San Diego, PAX, DC, even Oahu and Point Mugu, you're going to have a pretty good shot at finding employment. On the other hand, Whidbey, Bremerton, Lemoore, all the southern tier TRACOMs, Kauai, Fallon, China Lake, Key West, etc... that's going to be a challenge.I know several mostly NLC wives that have made something for themselves, but it had to be a long hustle, and it couldn't have been easy. That said, Oceana isn't that much better. Maybe if your spouse is a health care person, as so many are, since there are several major hospitals in VA Beach (one that my youngest was born in, like my oldest was in Reno......and we now joke how he is an outlaw by birth)
That lifestyle still exists and it is not as uncommon as you think…So it sounds like big Navy is really saying not to consider marriage and family while you are AD. I tend to see mil aviators waiting to mid 30's to have marriage and kids anyways.
Or simply choose a young woman without career ambitions outside of being a wife and mother, if that's still possible.I do have fond memories of young wives that connected and formed supportive communities focused on keeping life interesting and providing resources while we deployed and pursued our early careers. Probably an anachronism now.
I'm 27 with 8 years enlisted time, currently waiting to start flight school and I've just committed to not even thinking about starting a family until I'm preparing to drop my retirement package. On the enlisted side I never turned down an opportunity to deploy and plan on keeping my career as my priority for the next decade. I'm not willing to get married until I'm ready to prioritize a relationship and family over my career and I'm just not there yet.That lifestyle still exists and it is not as uncommon as you think…
That’s fine, you do you. I was just telling Chuck that there are plenty of us out there that are married with kids and our wives are at home with them.I'm 27 with 8 years enlisted time, currently waiting to start flight school and I've just committed to not even thinking about starting a family until I'm preparing to drop my retirement package. On the enlisted side I never turned down an opportunity to deploy and plan on keeping my career as my priority for the next decade. I'm not willing to get married until I'm ready to prioritize a relationship and family over my career and I'm just not there yet.
I do have fond memories of young wives that connected and formed supportive communities focused on keeping life interesting and providing resources while we deployed and pursued our early careers.
HA. No I mean like around helping out with sick kids, activities. health crises, wives club stuff. The old standard of young women showing up at your house to fill your fridge with casseroles was a bedrock of support.Like key parties? Or helping out Jody?
And to be fair to you, yes I think that culture is pretty dead in the Navy writ large. We get it through our church. Many of them are also Navy families, but it isn’t through the squadron or anything.HA. No I mean like around helping out with sick kids, activities. health crises, wives club stuff. The old standard of young women showing up at your house to fill your fridge with casseroles was a bedrock of support.
And to be fair to you, yes I think that culture is pretty dead in the Navy writ large. We get it through our church. Many of them are also Navy families, but it isn’t through the squadron or anything.
Well, of course my community isn't having trouble getting people to take orders there: there aren't any orders to take.That means your T/M/S community isn't having trouble getting people to take orders to those locations. It's an incentive pay.
Last I checked, the ADHRB isn't a location incentive pay. Even the relatively nice locations of Jax and Whidbey aren't keeping pilots and NFOs in. JO retention is a nightmare right now and there's even folks getting out after screening for DH.