Marti,
Looks like you found a tough crowd. Here's the quick version of my story...
Childhood asthma. I took a Methacholine Challenge Test (special type of Pulmonary Function Test) in March through a private doctor and passed with no problem. Went to MEPS, got disqualified due to the history of asthma. However, at MEPS, a doctor recommended me for a waiver. Waiver recommendation goes to Millington, TN where head Navy doctor reviews waiver requests. After about 3 months, waiver comes back "REJECTED" but they gave me the opportunity of taking another Methacholine Challenge Test through a Navy doctor. No explanation provided... "this is the way it is."
Went to a Navy hospital and took the second test. Test results were fine. Rejected waiver application was re-submitted. This time, after only about a week, the waiver comes back APPROVED.
I'm not sure why it took 3 months the first time and only 1 week the second time. Anyway, that's where I am now. I have my waiver but now I'm looking into the Aeromedical waiver requirements to make sure I can fly (I'm applying for pilot).
Anyway, here's some tips that helped me (maybe in a small way) get a medical waiver:
1) Be healthy. You know if you're healthy or not.
2) I really felt like the "Catch more flies with honey" approach helps. I can't prove it, but I swear part of the medical diagnostic process is subjective. If you treat the doctors/nurses/medics with respect and a good attitude, I think it makes them want to root for you. I even got one nurse to write "GREAT TEST RESULTS!" on the actual test results.
3) Get a private doctor to verify results. I started the application process knowing I would probably need a Methacholine Challenge Test so, first things first, I went out and got one before I even talked to a Navy recruiter. That way, at every step, you can have a document in your hand that says you're healthy.
4) Ask for or make copies of everything and carry them with you everywhere. I took copies of my "GREAT TEST RESULTS" so that, at every turn, I had something tangible that I could show someone. Even to my final doctor interview at MEPS.
5) Have an active history of success in athletics. An athletic history is a good example of how healthy you are. I'm not trying to brag, but there were a couple of times that I impressed some of the doctors by telling them about some of my athletic accomplishments.
6) Have patience. There were times I thought the Navy had forgotten about me.
Lastly, waivers are a lot like reviewing a play in the NFL. The doctors want to see conclusive evidence to overturn a previous call. Give them all the evidence possible, then sugar coat it and become their friends. Would you want to reject your friend?
If anyone has any questions about an asthma waiver, feel free to email me.
-Greg