Valion310
I actually know someone from OCS who is married to an enlisted Marine. She is a Naval Officer and he is an enlisted Marine, and they haven't had to much trouble thus far. I will see if I can figure out where she is now and get her email address for you. They actually got married two months after her commissioning and she had just brought it up to the powers that be going into OCS and they didnt have a problem with it. If you love her, you love her and I dont think any of the politics should play a part of it.
Best of Luck