I have recently experienced some considerable success getting my wife into shooting. I had a multi-stage plan to get this done, and then executed it to perfection.
Step 1 was to scare the shit out of her....wait, I mean I tried to appeal to the female's natural desire for security. In Memphis, this is pretty easy to do. Just turn on the local news, and you will hear story after story of people getting murdered. Every time the news anchor starts talking about how someone got killed, I would say "SEE HONEY!!! THAT'S WHY I CARRY A GUN!!!"
When there was a home invasion about 2 miles from our house and a murder at a near-by bakery, that pretty much sealed the deal.
Step two was to let her think she was running the show...That consisted of going to gun shops and letting salesmen tell her the exact same shit that I had told her two or three times. It took a week from my bottom lip to heal, but I managed to keep quiet and let her hear things for the 3rd time.
Step three was going to the range...That was the easiest one. By that time she knew what she wanted to test drive, and after going through the Glock, XD, M&P, and Walther PPK, she had made her choice.
Step 5 was going back to the gun shop and making the buy.
So far, she really likes shooting. We have a really nice indoor range close by, and are about to get a membership. She is a really good shot, and it gives her something to practice with and get better at. I even shoot crappy sometimes just to make her think she is doing better than me. Man, that is a great decision. She can't wait to go back to the range and show me up again. We have her on the schedule to take the handgun carry class later this month.
If there is one bit of advice that I would jump up and down on, it is to go easy on her while teaching. Take it down to firearms 101, and don't intimidate her with a bunch of lingo that she does not understand. My wife is a lot more receptive to tips and help from people other than myself. Hey..her maiden name was Holtz, I knew what I was getting into.
Good luck.
Better yet, good luck finding ammo. Tennessee is sold the F out.