Standing out in a good way as a cone is extremely difficult. It's not about aptitude, it's about attitude. No one is expecting the reincarnation of Wade McClusky and no one will be impressed if you carry yourself like you are. As web-san said, the attitude IPs look for is being able to learn from your inevitable fuckups, not let it get in your kitchen, and press on with a positive attitude.
They tell you what to memorize - show up to the brief with that shit memorized. Your next two flights too. Don't bitch, don't ask for special favors. Fess up if you're sick or your girlfriend called you at 3AM to dump you and you're too frazzled to fly. Keep your head in the books, mouth shut, ears open. And the correct answer to what do you want to fly is always, "anything that goes in the air is good, sir/ma'am".