There is subjectivity when it comes to medical decisions, what one doc you have for a Q and A may say is ok and waiverable one at NAMI may not, I had one person with a DQ condition waivered, but due to circumstances we had to delay his application, due to experiation of his MEPS physical he went through the process again but this time, under a new doc, he was not waivered.
Basically what I am saying is unless you have the doc's that are making the decision you might as well just send them to this site or look in the waiver guide.