Hey
I ask the same question to a Tom Cat pilot. He told me that the F-18 has more control in tight formation, and in the F-14 you really have to work the stick.. And Plus the F-14 is not good has the F-18 in a slow and low leve, manuver.
Thats why the F-18 won the spot.
So I guess the pilot that told me is correct since he flys both now.