This is just a personal apology to Raptor. It was not my intention to single you out or make you feel humiliated by your comments. I know that you are not in the military and never have been but the reaction you observed is classic. I have to remember who the audience is and try to take in to account you and everyone else's lack of experience. Steve taught me that in regards to the DOR issue. It is true that had Raptor made a comment like that as a commissioned officer, he would have been standing on two yellow foot prints in front of my desk but he is not in the military and this is not the proper forum. I saw an opportunity to teach, Raptor was just the catylst. My lesson to Raptor and everyone else is you have to watch what you say and do. You have to be respectful of everyone, regardless of grade, sex and color. I saw careers ended after Tailhook '91 because of the most harmless of comments being blown out of proportion. I don't want to see any more good people go down for misinterpretation. Always, always check your six. It's unfortunate but true. Leadership by example is also key. If you show disrespect to a certain group, how do you expect your troops to respect you (Navy/Marine rivalries excluded)? Obviously, I take my profession seriously. My comments are direct and to the point and sometimes they hurt. I will try to work on that but I'm an ol dog and its hard. Rest assured, there is never any intention of malice in my comments only tidbits of knowledge from experience for everyone's benefit. That is the reason I spend my time in this forum.
Raptor, your comment was in fact, stupid. Your learning. You have also provided a useful insight on how to act as a military officer, not just for you but to everyone who reads this forum. Flying is such a small part of it. I guarantee, you are not the first to step in it and will not be the last. Actually, you are in fact the type of young person we look forward to as instructors. I would much rather have a person who goes at 100% and gets stepped on when he is out of line then to have a young officer show lack of initiative and have to be proded along. Good luck to you and I look forward to your future questions or comments. Semper Fi! Frumby
P.S. From your email you questioned my sexual preference, I happened to marry one of the attractive women from around the Corpus Christi area. If you had called her one of the "hot girls in flight school," John would have censored most of her comments.
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