Flying was not easy, but it was often easier than the calibration required to play well with different instructors. Being well spoken is a great asset, as well as direct and non-confrontational.
Get used to it. If you're going to a platform with more than just you strapped in then this will be a daily fact of life. Every crew is different and learning to adapt quickly to different personalities will save you lots of heartache. If anything this becomes more important once you get to planes without orange, even if you're not being graded on a day-to-day basis.
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