Okay Guys, here's the deal. I recently got engaged. Now, my fiance will graduate with her bachelors degree in May '04. Meanwhile, I graduate this May and since having my OCS date bumped, head down there on Oct 4th. While we're not looking to get married right away, definitely not until after she has graduated, I am wondering how you can plan a wedding without knowing anything. Either on this site or another, I've heard people say that they had DI's say wings before rings. I personally don't want to wait that long, but will if it's necessary. But really, how do you plan something like a wedding, or even set a date while in the process of earning those coveted wings of gold. No one has really been able to answer this for me and I didn't see anything in the old topics on the subject. I know that many of you are married and appreciate any help you can give me on the subject.