One of the biggest tenets of Naval Aviation is know your own limits. If you know you'll need a monastic existence to pass flight school, then live in the Q and dedicate yourself to studying. If you can handle managing studying and the temptations of the real world like an adult, the live wherever you damn well please.
I lived in east pcola all through flight school. It was about a 40 min commute to NASWF and about a 10min cab ride home from the beach/downtown. I enjoyed being closer to civilization on my off time then being closer to the base. It did require that I manage my time a bit better, but I still left with wings and had a really good time in flight school.
I don't remember too many 0500 briefs and for the ones I do remember, the commute was significantly shorter at 0430. On the weekends I had lots of miltonites crashing on my couches after drinking and just hanging out to get away from it all.